Когда парень просит рассказать о себе что рассказать: Что незаурядного можно рассказать парню о себе?

Что интересного рассказать парню при общении? Какие темы выбрать для разговора?

 

Автор: Олег Мальцев

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Если вы с парнем знакомы уже длительное время, то тему для разговора найти будет несложно. Хотя даже зная друг друга, интересы не всегда совпадают. Поэтому время от времени придётся потрудиться. Расскажем, что можно рассказать интересного о себе и не только парню, с которым вы начали общаться.

 

 

Как начать беседу?

Общаться с парнем оказывается не так-то и просто. Особенно в том случае, когда вы только что познакомились и совершенно не знаете ничего друг о друге. Выбор темы для беседы – очень капризная и индивидуальная штука. Все люди разные в проявлении своих мыслей, интересов и желаний

Итак, вы назвали друг другу свои имена и выразили симпатию. Что же дальше? Теперь нужно начать беседу, но такую, чтобы она не закончилась после первой фразы. Начать можно с вопросов, которые помогут определить возможную тему, которая будет интересна вашему собеседнику.

В разговоре это не обязательно рассказы одного человека другому о своей личности. Большинство бесед при знакомстве строятся на коротких рассказах о себе со стороны каждого из общающихся. Задайте своему новому знакомому несколько вопросов. Этим вы покажете, что вам интересно узнать о нем подробнее:

• Поинтересуйтесь, как он любит проводить свободное время;
• Можно задать вопрос относительно сферы деятельности, с просьбой рассказать, что нового произошло в отрасли, где он трудится;
• Подробнее расспросить об увлечениях.

 

В этом видео психолог Тимур Баринов расскажет, о чем ни в коем случае не нужно говорить парням, что может их задеть и обидеть:

 

О чём говорить в интернете?

Всё чаще люди знакомятся и много общаются в интернете. Тут тоже надо проявить фантазию, чувство юмора, скромность и такт. Можно начать разговор с общепринятых вопросов типа:

1. Как настроение?
2. Какие планы на ближайшие выходные?
3. Как проходит твое обучение (работа)?

Попросите фото и сделайте парню комплимент. Поверьте, мужчины любят приятные высказывания в свой адрес не менее чем женщины. Обменяйтесь смешными картинками.

На его вопросы отвечайте, не делая длительных пауз. Если общение дальше по каким-либо причинам невозможно – извинитесь и попрощайтесь.

Не оставляйте вопрос без ответа. Тем более если переписку планируете продолжить. Не задавайте вопросы, на которые получите однозначные ответы «да» или «нет». Такие вопросы называются «закрытыми.

И не спрашивайте сходу о таких вещах, как:

• Размер заработной платы;
• Закончившиеся личные отношения;
• Метраж и стоимость квартиры;
• Планы, относительно вас, на дальнейшее будущее.

Не шутите в переписке на эротические темы. Вы ещё недостаточно знаете друг друга, чтобы обсуждать какие-то пикантные темы. Это может не только вызвать в человеке не очень приятное впечатление о вас, но даже испугать и оттолкнуть.

Гораздо лучше поинтересоваться тем, что пробудит в вашем избраннике желание не только узнать о вас, но и рассказать о себе как можно больше. Выражайтесь красиво и желательно литературным языком.

 

Как выбрать тему для разговора и о чём рассказать?

Исходя из той информации, которую вы получите из ответов на свои ненавязчивые вопросы. Уже можно сориентироваться, что будет наиболее интересно узнать будущему другу о вас, на какие темы стоит заводить разговор, а каких необходимо будет избегать.

Для того, чтобы рассказать о себе, можно использовать множество тем:

1. Расскажите о своих увлечениях. Это могут быть впечатления о последней прочитанной книге;
2. Если у вас есть животные, вспомните несколько забавных случаев;
3. Интересные путешествия? Поведайте о лучших моментах;
4. Несколько забавных историй из вашей жизни помогут разрядить обстановку;
5. Расскажите о своих достижениях в любимом деле или учёбе. Только не стоит делать это слишком эмоционально, восторгаясь собой. Это может выглядеть, как хвастовство;
6. Несомненно, весёлую нотку в общение добавит недлинный анекдот, соответствующий ситуации.
7. Обязательно поинтересуйтесь о том, что он думает о новинках техники или автомобилестроения. «Не любителей» этой темы среди мужчин практически не существует.

8. Расскажите про свои музыкальные предпочтения, какие стили музыки вам нравятся.
9. Про свои самые яркие в жизни впечатления, которые вы получали в своей жизни. Это может быть поездка, прыжок с парашютом или посещение какого-либо фестиваля.
10. Поговорите о кулинарии, расскажите, как и что вы любите есть и готовить.

Постарайтесь отложить в памяти максимум информации о мужчине. Это в будущем вам обязательно пригодится.

В процессе общения всегда смотрите собеседнику в глаза. Не отводите взгляд в сторону и не утыкайтесь в гаджет или потолок. Это, как минимум, для нового знакомого это будет означать, что вам не очень интересно его слушать. Не перебивайте собеседника и не перескакивайте с одной темы на другую.

 

О чём нельзя рассказывать?

Для начала общения следует избегать, так называемых «запрещённых тем». Никогда на первых этапах знакомства не заводите разговоров на недопустимые темы:

1. Ни в коем случае не посвящайте своего нового знакомого в подробности вашей личной жизни. Не надо рассказывать, сколько партнёров у вас было до знакомства с ним и то, как и по каким причинам, вы «разбежались;
2. Не рассказывайте о своих материальных желаниях, трудностях и положении в целом;
3. Не обсуждайте в негативном контексте ваших друзей, подруг и коллег по работе. Это будет расценено, как сплетничество;
4. Не жалуйтесь на проблемы в отношениях с родственниками;
5. Не критикуйте сферы деятельности, модные тенденции, правильность тех или иных поступков, тем более, пока вы не знаете его отношения ко многому;
6. Не заводите разговоров о политических новостях и чрезвычайных происшествиях. Ему может это показаться скучным;
7. Старайтесь не рассказывать длинные истории. Не факт, что ваши или чьи-то приключения сразу же вызовут живой интерес.

Если вы вдруг заметите, что новый знакомый уводит диалог в другую сторону, значит этот момент разговора ему не очень интересен, а возможно даже неприятен. Поэтому срочно меняйте тему, и не настаивайте на продолжении обсуждения предыдущей.

Будьте деликатны, так как после проявления подобной настойчивости, человек может и вовсе не захотеть дальше общаться. Некоторые парни при знакомстве с девушкой довольно скромны, поэтому не пытайтесь растормошить его громким смехом и активной жестикуляцией. Держите себя в спокойном состоянии. Но не забывайте улыбаться. В противном случае, рискуете показаться чрезмерно развязанной.

 

Как поддержать беседу?

В процессе общения постарайтесь не допускать неловких пауз. Тем для разговоров бесконечное множество. Поэтому вот ещё несколько советов:

1. Больше читайте. Чем больше будет кругозор знаний, тем легче будет найти новую тему для беседы подобрать нужные слова.
2. Уделяйте время просмотру документальных фильмов, и посещайте культурные мероприятия. Это позволит не только узнать много нового, но и разобраться в тонкостях многих тем.
3. Старайтесь чаще тренировать свою речь. Сложно слушать человека, который говорит с бесконечными паузами, вставляя ненужные «ну как бы»;
4. Всегда проявляйте заинтересованность. Не перебивая, задавайте ненавязчивые вопросы;
5. Общайтесь в интернете. Разнообразные форумы и чаты прекрасно помогают развить навыки коммуникабельности.

Обязательным условием для поддержания беседы дайте понять понравившемуся вам молодому человеку, что вам комфортно и приятно находиться в его обществе. Будьте чуткими. Обращайте внимание на любые реакции.

 

Что мешает девушкам при общении с парнями?

Если вспомнить себя в детстве, то для любого из нас, новый незнакомый человек являлся целым неизведанным миром. Нам хотелось его изучить и понять, что ему нравится, почему он ведет себя с нами так, а не иначе. Но мы не знали, как и о чём разговаривать, поэтому просто вели наблюдательный процесс за поведением.

Взрослым же людям мешают несколько другие причины:

• Застенчивость. Человек не может расслаблено и свободно говорить, обращая внимание на оценивающий взгляд;
• Боязнь сказать какую-нибудь глупость. Вдруг высказанное мнение окажется не соответствующим действительности;
• Неуверенность в правильности своей речи.

Подводя итог, нужно сказать, что для того чтобы беседа сложилась необходимо обращать внимание не только на свои эмоции, но и смотреть на то, как реагирует собеседник на те или иные фразы, которые вы озвучите и истории, которые вы расскажете. В будущем это поможет не только правильно выстроить не только диалог, но и, возможно, отношения.

 

Видео: о чем говорить с парнями? (темы)

В этом ролике психолог Юлиана Ланске рассказывает, о чем нужно говорить с мужчинами, какие темы для разговоров будут наиболее уместны:

90000 When You Love a Man With Low Self-Esteem 90001 90002 90003 So you love a guy with low self-esteem. Sucks to be you. I’m saying that as a dude who used to hate himself. Who still kind of does. I know the crap you deal with. He must drive you nuts. 90004 90003 I was in a relationship with an angel, let’s call her Mary. Mary was such a pure, beautiful soul. We connected.Looking into her eyes filled me with comfort and calmed my fears. Mary loved me so much, and I loved her too. But I hated myself even more. Long story short — I ran away from her love. The love I felt unworthy of. I sought validation and distraction in women, alcohol and career moves. And in many other dark ways I will not mention. 90004 90003 Low self-esteem is easy to explain yet hard to understand for some. It’s 90008 feeling shameful about who you are. 90009 Feeling guilty or embarrassed about who you are, deep in your core.You feel ‘different’. Damaged or flawed in fundamental, irreversible ways. You do not love yourself. Your man may never admit it outright — but he wishes he were someone else. 90004 90003 Alas, there’s no return policy in life. We’re stuck in this skin forever, and the hate, the self-pity — it gets us nowhere. But here’s the rub: 90004 90003 90014 When a man is dealing with low self-esteem, he’ll make mistakes. Big mistakes. 90015 My shame and low self-esteem led me to become reckless. I felt a constant, nearly unbearable background anxiety.I had to make myself feel different. I had to escape. Luckily, there were several reliable methods: nonstop partying, irresponsible sex, starting businesses, spending lots of money, exotic traveling. My worst nightmare was being alone, in a quiet room. I could not stand my own company. Maybe your man feels the same way, I pray he does not. But my feelings are not unique. 90004 90003 The mistakes I made led to 90008 more shame and guilt. 90009 And then more mistakes made running away from 90008 those 90009 feelings.The cycle continues. This leads to what I like to call the 9th dimension of shame. The hole can get so deep. The spiral of pain seems unstoppable. 90004 90003 Your man’s low self-esteem can manifest in a variety of ways. Every guy will act out in his own way. Some pull back and hide, some flee and seek experiences. Others party and rage, or try to prove themselves at work. It’s troublesome for both the sufferer and the poor individual who loves them so much. Low self-esteem is tricky; the sufferer can distract himself or run away from it for years.He may not even realize that the darkness he feels is low self-esteem. And it’s f * cking heartbreaking. 90004 90003 If you love him, he will need you to get through it. You may be able to show him the light. Do not give up on him, he needs you. Many times it will be confusing, and he may hurt you without wanting to. (Trust me, he does not want to hurt you. He hurts enough just being himself.) 90004 90003 Here are some important things to remember: a cheat sheet to get you through tough times. And maybe to help him see the truth of his ways.90004 90029 90030 90031 He loves you so much, but hates himself even more. 90032 90003 He’s lost. You two may have such an obvious, beautiful opportunity for love but he squanders it. He only sees his own shortcomings. His pain and depression is like a dark, heavy, thick blanket that he just can not shake. But like I said above, he may not even realize it. He’s not trying to mess with your head. He’s not unreachable. However he is in a state of constant anxiety, always wishing he could be someone HE loves.If you say ‘I love you’, he probably thinks: ‘90008 Why would you? You can not. You’re wrong ‘. 90009 90004 90003 90038 He yearns to love himself, and the struggle to do that can ruin your relationship. This should be a good thing, right? Not all men act out this feeling in healthy ways. It will be hard but think about their perspective. If they do not love themselves maybe you can do something to help them. If you love him, do what you can to help his HEART. Buy him books on spirituality, ask him how he feels about himself.Listen, and if required seek the help of a licensed therapist or psychologist. 90004 90003 A book I recommend is No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover. It was a wake-up call, and helped launch my wild journey of transformation. Do not let the title fool you, it’s a book about shame, self-worth and learning to accept yourself. It’s a powerful starting point, buy it now. 90004 90042 90030 90031 He may seek attention outside the relationship, or activities without you. 90032 90003 This was a huge factor in my relationship ending.My low self-esteem led me to crave attention from other potential partners. I was addicted to approval and validation from other women. 90004 90003 Maybe he likes attention from others, flirtation and come-hither looks. I hope you have not caught him on dating sites or apps. That was another thing I would do — I craved the attention so much. Maybe he also yearns for people to tell him how cool he is, how great he dresses, or what a sweet job he has. Point is, he’s just crazy for attention. 90004 90003 He seeks attention and approval from other people — but what about you? Self-esteem is a real b * tch.He thinks that he has to either prove to himself that he’s worthy, or look for evidence of it anywhere he can. ‘If other people tell me I’m great, then that must mean I’m great.’ 90004 90003 It may be common sense to you — that we should all love and respect ourselves as human beings. But to a sufferer of low self-esteem, this is not the case. Having low self-esteem is like being in a courtroom. And you’re guilty until proven innocent. He’s shameful at the core of his being. His soul appears blackened, damaged and irreparable.He craves escapes from reality. 90004 90003 Try to talk with him about this. ‘I think you act like this because you like how it makes you feel, right? Why do you need to feel this way? Can not you just be yourself, how you feel now? » Why are not I enough? » Do you need help learning to love yourself? ‘90004 90003 If your man can not handle this conversation, consider moving on. He’s not ready. It must be him who makes the changes necessary to heal. It is NEVER on your shoulders to do this for him.90004 90042 90030 90031 He believes he must have ‘got lucky’. He feels unworthy of you. 90032 90003 At first he cherished you. You were his prize. He held you close, showed you off to the world. It was intoxicating and intense. But soon, he knew he ‘had you’ and started looking around. The high that you and the new relationship gave him faded. The drug wore off, so he’s seeking fresh supply. He needs more intense intoxicating experiences to feel okay about himself. 90004 90003 I had an amazing partner in Mary, but I did not believe I was worthy.She could see the man I was, beyond the shit-storm that was my life. She saw through my shame and self-hatred but I could not buy it. I was too deep in my own trance. 90004 90003 I thought I’d got lucky, that I’d fooled her somehow. So I needed to prove that I 90008 could 90009 90008 be worthy 90009 90008 of someone amazing. 90009 Does that sound stupid or what? I wanted to be able to ‘earn someone’ who everyone else wanted, to prove to myself that I was a valuable man. Then I could love myself.90004 90003 Remember that this is not about you — this is about a hole he has in his heart. He needs to know that he did not just ‘get lucky’ when he landed you. Do not let him feel that way! Please, tell him you love him. Tell him everything you think is unique and enticing about him. Do not make it only about appearance either. If he feels like he fooled you, he will not treat the relationship with the respect. This is an important point. 90004 90042 90030 90031 He may be restless, or always trying to prove something to the world or himself.90032 90003 Some call it ‘hustle’ or ambition. Maybe he has grand ideas or entrepreneurial zeal up the wazoo. He wants to create something that will change the world. That’s wonderful, but in his case it may be a cover-up: a distraction from voices in his head. The voices that say, ‘you’re not enough’. He’s trying to create a life that will prove his worth. 90004 90003 He does not want a life without you. His big dreams or grandiose desires get him out of his head. They give him hope that maybe one day, just maybe he will be able to like the man he is.After he does all this awesome stuff. 90004 90003 There is nothing wrong with drive and initiative. But 90008 why 90009 is he so driven? Why does he 90008 desire 90009 so much? If we bothered to ask ourselves ‘why’ we want the things we do, we could save ourselves much heartbreak. We’d stop running after so many shiny red balls. We could live with more purpose. Your man should ask himself why he wants to accomplish so much. 90004 90003 To bring him down to earth, remind him how much life there is to live 90008 right now 90009, in this moment.This moment, between the two of you. Kiss his lips, hold his head in your hands. Tousle that hair and look deep into those eyes you love so much. Say, ‘I love you for exactly who you are, right now’. Tell him he is enough. 90004 90003 The point is not to make him an aimless, lazy ass. It’s to make sure he has his motivation and priorities in the right place. 90004 90042 90030 90031 He can be extremely jealous or insecure about other men. 90032 90003 My ex, Mary, had to think that I was perfect and wonderful at all times.She was my entire support system, and my source of confidence and security. She was my everything. (And yet I treated her awfully — are not men the greatest?) 90004 90003 If I felt threatened or not # 1 importance in her life, I would start to lose my sh * t. The low self-esteem inside your man creates an enormous hole. He filled it with you, and sprinkles in other things like vices and attention from others. When you threaten to leave them empty again they go crazy or become irrational. 90004 90003 He does not want you to suffer.Nor does he want to dominate you. He does not know why he feels this way, but it’s because he hates who he is. In effect it’s self-defense, your actions hurt him. It’s painful enough just being who he is — when you threaten to make him feel even worse about himself … he lashes out or gets uncomfortable. 90004 90003 Nothing about this is okay. I’m only telling it like it is. 90004 90042 90030 90031 It can be near impossible to get him living ‘in the moment’. 90032 90003 Many guys with low self-esteem are living in the past.He may be guilt-ridden and woeful over opportunities he failed to seize. Maybe he regrets not doing better in school, or choosing a better college. He might feel like a failure and disappointment to his family. Who knows, the point is he rides himself down all the time. 90004 90003 Alternately, he’s living in the future. He dreams of a day when he can ‘be happy’. You may feel sad because it seems all he cares about is making lots of money, accomplishments or fame. Or making his family proud. He may seem to leave you out of his utopian vision of the future.But he probably just feels he’ll only worthy of you once he conquers the world. He feels he’s unworthy of happiness until he proves himself. These thoughts consume him and he’s desperate for that sweet moment of relief when he’s ‘made it’. Problem: it’s never coming. 90004 90003 You love him exactly as he is, right? Tell him that right now. 90004 90042 90030 90031 True commitment scares the sh * t out of him — but not for the reason you think. 90032 90003 In my relationship, I was afraid because I did not know who the hell I was.The only parts of myself I knew were sh * t. I did not feel like a good person, so who would want to be with me? I convinced myself that I was helping by not giving her marriage or children. By not giving her 100% true commitment I was doing her a favor. 90004 90003 I did not believe in myself. I had no faith in my own goodness or potential. I knew I would not be able to handle the hard times that would come. My feelings were ‘everything I touch turns to sh * t, so why would I waste her time? It’s doomed from the start, and I do not want to hurt her ‘.90004 90003 No advice here, no matter what he’s going to give you the ‘deer in the headlights’ look. Knowing this may help you understand the complexity of a man. He needs to learn to love himself through the hard times before he can love you through the hard times. 90004 90042 90030 90031 He may enjoy seeing you in pain or suffering for the relationship. 90032 90003 Sick, huh? Hate me if you want, I do not care. I come in truth. This is a tough one to talk about. Self-esteem can get so low that a man gets validation from seeing his partner suffer.Seeing a person go through hell for us, feel pain caused by us — can actually give us pride. 90004 90003 It’s a dose of the ‘I’m worthy’ drug … ‘Look at how this person goes crazy for me, I must be worthy’. 90004 90003 Enough said, it’s time to leave the relationship. Hurt never justifies hurt. 90004 90042 90030 90031 He adores you — but he needs to learn how to love himself. 90032 90003 Your guy has to learn to love himself. This includes all the deepest and darkest parts too, the parts that scare him to death.The unfaced and unfelt parts of our psyche are the source of all neurosis and suffering. Carl Jung said that, not me. 90004 90003 If he only loves a certain part of himself like his looks, the rest of him will just go on undeveloped. In many ways I was like a child before. I avoided pain or sacrifice every chance I could, and I turned into a big man-child. If this is happening to your man, you must stop it right away. 90004 90042 90147 90003 In the end, you can get over this together. The bond between you will be unbreakable, and he will love you forever.He’ll never forget that you were the girl who helped him discover the greatest love in the universe. His love for himself. Stick in there, but develop a plan right away. Not only is he suffering, you are as well. Take action now. If he refuses to draw a line in the sand and change his life, it may be time to walk away. 90004 90150 90031 About the Author: Paul Graves 90032 90003 90154 90155 90156 Paul Graves writes about pain, shame, and better living through self-acceptance at TakeTheLemons.com. He lives in Ohio with his 7-year old daughter and two cats. 90157 90004 90003 Paul is on Twitter and Instagram. 90004 90031 Like this article? 90032 90003 Subscribe to our free newsletter for a weekly round up of our best articles 90004 .90000 200 Questions to Ask a Guy 90001 90002 90003 Here is a great set of unique questions to ask a guy. They are designed to get an interesting conversation started, and so some of the questions are a bit off the beaten track. 90004 90003 Remember every guy is different, so pick and choose which questions you think will work best for your guy or pick questions that you really want to know the answers to. 90004 90003 Sometimes you’ll be surprised at which questions a guy will find interesting.So even if a question seems like something he would not be interested in, it might be worth a shot. 90004 90003 Before we start, remember to ask lots of follow up questions to find out more and to keep the conversation going. And if you’d like an image or PDF of some of the questions without commentary, scroll down to the bottom we’ve got both waiting for you. 90004 90011 List of questions to ask a guy 90012 90003 Without further delay, here are 200 quality questions to ask a guy! 90004 90015 1.What was your best drop the mic moment? 90016 90003 Who does not like telling an awesome story about themselves? This will give your guy a chance to tell you a good story and is a great way to get him talking. It will also let you know what kinds of things he is into and what he considers important. 90004 90015 2. What childish thing do you still enjoy? 90016 90003 We all have things that we carry over from our childhood and I’m sure he does too. He might not admit it but he probably still likes peeing in the snow and building sand castles.This question is likely to get you some cute answers. Remember you do not have to limit it to just one childish thing, you can get him to list off more. 90004 90015 3. What’s the biggest doubt you have? 90016 90003 We all have doubts. Whether those doubts are about the world at large or ourselves. This one can really lead to a serious conversation but sharing doubts can be an excellent way of creating a strong bond between two people. 90004 90015 4. Who has completely lost your respect? 90016 90003 A great question for seeing what values ​​he thinks are important.Also a great conversation starter as there are more than few celebrities that have fallen from grace. 90004 90015 5. What movie do you wish life was more like? 90016 90003 Another question that is fun to answer and gets a really unique conversation going. Just remember to talk about the small things that would change as well. Really dive into how everyday life would change if it was more like the movie he choose. Do not be afraid to take it to a ridiculous level. 90004 90015 6. How many phones have you broken or lost? 90016 90003 A seemingly simple question that sometimes can lead to a really long discussion.That’s because usually behind every broken or lost phone there is a story. Either that or he is just super clumsy or forgetful, which is also good to know. 90004 90015 7. Who or what is your nemesis? 90016 90003 We all have things or people that we absolutely hate. I’m sure he does too. And since everyone loves talking about what annoys them, well, this is a great question to get a conversation going. If you want to, you can encourage funny or silly answers; like jars that do not open or YouTube videos that load ads perfectly but not the video.You can easily move the conversation to a lighter rant about generally annoying things. 90004 90015 8. What is the most useless thing you know how to do? 90016 90003 What kind of hidden talents does he have? This is always great because usually he can show you. We all have silly and useless talents, now you can learn about his! 90004 90015 9. What’s the worst and best thing about being male? 90016 90003 How much do you know about what it’s like being a guy? Well now is your chance to find out more.I think you’ll be surprised at some of the answers the guy you are talking with will give. You might also try moving the conversation to talking about some small annoying things about being a guy. This question is really great because it’s a lot of fun to answer and you’ll probably find out some things you did not know. 90004 90015 10. What is something that most people get wrong? 90016 90003 Lots of different answers to this one, so it’s pretty hard to guess what kind of answer he’ll come up with.But it’s a great little question to get a conversation going or at least come up with some complaints you can both commiserate about. 90004 90015 11. What would you NOT do for 5 million dollars? 90016 90003 This is a fun one to answer. And it can tell you a lot about the guy as well. You can find out what morals he considers to be most important and what activities he finds detestable. 90004 90015 12. What long shot have you taken that really paid off? 90016 90003 He’s probably never been asked this question before, so be ready to give him some time to think.You’ll probably get an interesting answer though, either a story or a fact that you did not know about him. 90004 90015 13. If you could learn only one magic spell, but it could only do something mundane and boring, what would the spell do? 90016 90003 A fun question that can lead to some really creative answers. Some examples might be: unclog a drain, make toast slightly more brown, unjam a copier, etc. You could further the conversation by trying to think of the incantation that would go with the spell.90004 90015 14. You wake up suddenly in the middle of the night. What would be the scariest sound to hear after waking up? 90016 90003 It’s great because it might give you some insight into what he is afraid of. Either that, or you’ll give him a chance to make you laugh if he want’s to make it into a joke. Either way, it’s a fun question to ask a guy and one that makes follow up questions easy. You can talk about amping up scariness of the situation, talk about his other fears, or perhaps try to find fears you have in common.90004 90015 15. What high level job do you think you could lie your way into with no experience and no one would notice? 90016 90003 This question has a lot of possible answers, but to really make it fun, talk about how he would be able to stop people finding out he was fraud. Sure it sounds like the plot for a bad comedy movie, but still, it’s a fun question to answer. 90004 90015 16. What would be the consequences of a scientific discovery that extended the life span of humans to 500 years? 90016 90003 You two can skip this one if you are not in the mood for a serious discussion, but I think you’d be surprised at how many guys will really get into answering a question like this.You can discuss how societal norms might change, or how it would affect the progress of technology. There really are a lot of directions you can take this question. 90004 90015 17. What movie can you watch over and over and never get tired of? 90016 90003 He’ll definitely like telling you about his favorite movie, and more importantly you’ll learn what types of movies / shows he likes. This question is easy to expand upon because you can start talking about favorite movies and TV shows, as well as movies or shows you hate.90004 90015 18. If you designed and built a tree house, what would it look like and what would be in it? 90016 90003 This one is probably my favorite in this list of questions to ask a guy. It’s pure creativity gold. It’s great because every guy secretly wants a bad ass tree house get away for themselves. I do not know what it is, but I’ve never met a guy who hated tree houses. 90004 90015 19. What is the most interesting piece of trivia you know? 90016 90003 He gets to show off some of the things h 90004.90000 Get the Guy: 7 Quick Ways To Tell if He’s Attracted to You 90001 90002 Is He Attracted to You? 90003 90004 Most people do not want to take a risk on someone that may not already like them, so they try to make sure they know whether they like them first. Women especially are often unaccustomed to making the first move, so knowing how to read a guy can feel vital. So how do you tell if a guy is interested? Here are seven signs to consider. 90005 90004 90007 90008 Are they your soulmate? Get a reading with a love psychic and find out! 90009 90010 90005 90004 90008 1.Eye Contact 90009 90015 As obvious as it sounds, a guy will make eye contact with you when he finds you attractive. But the key is in the regularity. «He keeps looking at me!» If he find you attractive, he will not look at you just the once. If you keep looking over your shoulder and catching him looking at you, you’re certainly getting a great first cue. You might be wondering why he looks away when I catch him staring. He’s probably just gathering up the nerve to come say hello! 90005 90004 90008 2.Proximity 90009 90015 Is he finding reasons to drift closer towards you? This is often the first subtle (or not-so-subtle) step men take when they are in the presence of a woman they find attractive. So, next time you are in a bookstore, you might notice him conveniently browsing the books nearest to you. Most guys are simply hoping that by being near to you they are going to end up talking to you (even if they do forget to open their mouths!) 90005 90004 90008 3. He Tells You More Than He Needs To 90009 90015 In conversation, does he offer up information that you had not really asked for? When a guy find you attractive, you’ll often find him talking about his achievements, the last place he went on holiday, or his passions.These are certainly great signs. It’s just his way of looking for your approval. If he’s investing time in telling you about himself and his life, it’s a great sign! 90005 90004 90008 4. He Re-initiates Things 90009 90015 When conversation dies down for a few seconds, is he the one to revive it? If you go to the bathroom, does he come and find you again afterwards, even if you do not automatically come back to him? Look for signs that he is trying to extend the interaction. 90005 90004 90008 5.»Pecking» 90009 90015 If you’re in a loud environment, is he the one leaning in to listen to your response? You can usually tell which person is investing the most amount of effort and energy by simply looking at who is leaning in. 90005 90004 90008 6. Touch 90009 90015 By touch I do not necessarily mean anything sexual. I simply mean that a guy is looking for reasons to break the physical barrier with you. Guys will use any excuse to do this. He might playfully tap you on the arm, touch your back as he walks behind you, or even make an excuse to high-five you! Look for signs of him being tactile with you in a way he is not with other people.90005 90004 90008 7. Smiling 90009 90015 When we’re talking to someone we are attracted to we become much more expressive. Look for someone who smiles frequently at what you say, and someone who laughs consistently at your jokes (even the ones that are not funny!) 90005 90004 Remember, do not wait until you have 90007 all 90010 of these signs! Just because he is not dancing back-to-back with you, or standing next to you at the bar, does not mean he could not be interested. Sometimes you just have to make the leap.90005 90004 Being in love is a life experience that everyone deserves. If you’re hesitant about making the first move, a 90008 love psychic 90009 can help. They want to see you happy and a 90008 psychic love reading 90009 is all you need to find or keep the love that is meant for you. 90005 90004 Find a 90008 love psychic 90009 or learn more about 90008 psychic love readings 90009. 90005 90063 90004 90007 90008 About California Psychics 90009 90015 California Psychics is the most trusted source of 90008 psychic readings 90009.We have delivered over 6 million discreet and confidential 90008 psychic readings by phone 90009 since 1995. More than a prediction, we are your guide for life’s journey. Serenity, happiness, and success are just a phone call away. With over 400 90008 psychics online 90009 to choose from, you’re sure to find the 90008 best psychics 90009 for you. Call one of our trusted and 90008 accurate psychics 90009 today! Confidential and secure, 90008 real psychics 90009, accurate predictions, 100% guaranteed.New customers talk for just $ 1 / minute. 90010 90005.90000 22 Tips On How To Tell If A Shy Guy Likes You 90001 90002 90003 90004 90002 Sometimes it’s pretty tough to figure out whether or not a shy guy likes you. But here are signals you can watch out for that will tell you once and for all if that someone special shy guy really does like you. 90004 90002 Yes, it’s tough to know if you should push for a romantic relationship with a shy guy simply because you are not sure if he’s really interested in you or not. 90004 90002 Nobody wants to waste their time right? 90004 90002 Here are a few telltale signals that are going to help you figure out whether or not this man is really worth your time.90004 90013 How To Tell If A Shy Guy Likes You 90014 90015 Signal 1 — You’ll catch him looking at you when you are not looking 90016 90002 A shy man just does not want to get caught looking at you so he will try and be neat and sneaky discreet about it. He’s only going to take a peep when he thinks you are not watching. 90004 90002 Think of it is you will as a form of conditioning. Shy men are trying to figure out whether or not they really like you and if they do, it will not take them long to get more bold with you.But for now, he’s going to try and check you out while staying behind the scenes. 90004 90002 Sweetly endearing … Get used to it. 90004 90015 Signal 2 — He’s just looking very uncomfortable in general 90016 90002 No doubt this is a tough signal to figure out because it just might seem like he’s not paying any attention to you at all. What you need to consider is that he just might be so anxious and nervous around you that he’s ready to seriously throw up. 90004 90002 It might take him a little bit of time to get comfy and willing to warm up to you.Confidence comes when he feels he can trust you. 90004 90002 Give him the time he needs because a shy guy just might be the perfect match for you if you give it a chance. 90004 90015 Signal 3 — This guy is being totally clumsy awkward 90016 90002 Is this man always dropping his pen or glasses when he’s around you? He might try to «accidentally» drop something in front of you to get your attention? Is he having issues with his cup or glass around you? 90004 90002 What you need to do is look at this positively and with an open mind.Do not make him feel bad. Let him do his thing and try and add a little humor to it to take the edge off. 90004 90015 Signal 4 — He’s just treating you much differently 90016 90002 One thing for certain is if a shy man really does like you, he’s going to treat you differently than any other girl. Perhaps he’ll run to grab you a drink instead of paying attention to another girl. 90004 90002 This certainly might make the other girls a tad jealous but who cares, he’s got eyes for you and that’s magical.90004 90015 Signal 5 — This man is willing to share his deep dark secrets with you 90016 90002 It’s tough for anyone to trust off the hop. Even a regular man might not want to open himself up to you to share the secrets he holds with you, which of course is totally normal. 90004 90002 Just give this shy guy the opportunity to get to know you a little so he can open up and let you in. It’s going to take some time but if you do not pressure him and let him know you are happy to hear anything he wants to share with you, then you’re on the right track.90004 90002 If he is asking you for advice or sharing teeny-tiny secrets with you, then you’re on the right track. 90004 90002 Maybe he’s just so shy he does not want to share any sort of secret with anyone but you. 90004 90015 Signal 6 — This guy really gets annoyed when you talk about any other man 90016 90002 If a shy guy is cringing with the fact you’re talking about any other man, well you’ve just hit the jackpot! 90004 90002 Shy guys are not as confident as you might be used to and he will feel seriously hurt if you are talking about any other man but him.This signals to him that you really are not into him. You better clear this up fast or the shy guy will not be your prize. 90004 90015 Signal 7 — He simply loves whatever you are doing 90016 90002 I know this one is a little bit vague but it could not be more true. 90004 90002 A shy man that’s totally interested in you is going to ask what you did during the day or over the weekend. He might even try and get hooked up with the things you love to do just because. 90004 90002 Maybe he will join a group you are in or just show up at your next main event? 90004 90002 When he shows an interest in you for you, what you love and like, this shy guy is telling you he wants your attention and that only means good things.90004 90002 Balls in your court with this move. 90004 90015 Signal 8 — This special shy guy will ask if he can be your friend on social media 90016 90002 How sweet is that? 90004 90002 What’s really neat about social media is that you do not have to be face to face with someone to converse. However, if this man is following you on Facebook or Twitter, or better yet commenting on your posts, then you know this shy man is into you. 90004 90002 Need I say more? 90004 90015 Signal 9 — His friends are in the «tease» mode 90016 90002 If his friends are whispering when you walk by or playfully teasing you, that’s a good thing.If a man is discussing you with his friends, that means something. He likes you and shy or not, just might not be quite ready to tell you. 90004 90002 No worries, he will in time. Just be patient and understanding and it just might happen for you. 90004 90015 Signal 10 — He just can not seem to muster up the balls to ask you out 90016 90002 Shy guys are often afraid to make the move. He just might be scared that you’re going to reject him if he asks you out. Do not take this the wrong way please.90004 90002 Maybe he’s just waiting for you to make the first move? 90004 90002 If you like him, you should take the risk, do not you think? 90004 90002 If you do not, then you will never know what might have been, just saying. 90004 90015 Signal 11 — He’ll step up to the plate to defend you 90016 90002 Maybe your friends are making fun of you. But if a shy guy stands up for you, that certainly means something. Perhaps he just does not know what they are saying but if he comes to your defense regardless, that means he might be interested in you.90004 90015 Signal 12 — This guy pays attention to the itty bitty details 90016 90002 There is zero doubt here. A shy man will pay attention to the smallest details just because. He will remember your first teacher and your favorite pet. He will also likely have your work schedule memorized. 90004 90002 When a guy «really» likes you, shy or otherwise, he’s going to remember all the little details that might not matter to anybody else. 90004 90002 Perhaps egg whites are your favorite breakfast? 90004 90002 Maybe you can not stand the smell of olives in the grocery store? 90004 90002 How do you take your coffee? 90004 90002 A shy guy that remembers the little things that really do matter to you, is telling you straight up he’s got the hots for you.90004 90002 That’s got to count for something right? 90004 90015 Signal 13 — This man is going to put himself out on the line for you 90016 90002 Maybe your shy man likes to stay behind the scenes but if someone is making fun of you, he just might take this personal and take offence. Not for the wrong reasons but for all the right ones. 90004 90002 Bottom line is, this special shy man has your back and that’s magical. 90004 90015 Signal 14 — This man has no issues putting himself out on the line for you 90016 90002 Maybe your shy man does not like to socialize all that much, but is will to get uncomfortable to get comfortable in order to make you smile.90004 90002 Newsflash! This is NOT for him. It’s all about you. 90004 90002 When you are with his friends, he is always looking to get you involved in the group conversation. The last thing he wants is for you to feel left out. 90004 90002 Even if he’s not normally chatty, he will try for you. 90004 90015 Signal 15 — Mixed signals just might be the norm 90016 90002 This is a push and pull thing. One day your shy guy might be right into talking with you and the next he will not pay you any attention.This is a tough one but you need to see it in a positive light. 90004 90002 Maybe he’s just nervous around you or seriously has panic attacks. Give him the benefit of the doubt please. 90004 90002 Sure, he might confuse you but that does not mean he’s not a keeper! 90004 90015 Signal 16 — A direct face to face will be his way 90016 90002 If a man likes you, shy or not, he’s going to face you directly, instead of standing off to the side. 90004 90002 This is just a neat and discreet route to let you know he really does like you.90004 90015 Signal 17 — Holding the door open is the norm 90016 90002 This just gets back to the ancient idea of ​​chivalry, where a man puts a woman first and makes sure she knows it with the little things. 90004 90002 If he’s going out of his way to hold the door for you, its ‘critical you see this as a sign of his efforts to connect with you … he just wants you to appreciate his efforts, that’s all. 90004 90015 Signal 18 — He takes action to connect the best he can with your best friend 90016 90002 What this means is that he is paying attention and understands who’s important to you and he’s trying to make a good impression with them too.90004 90002 Newsflash — He knows the important people in your life will have a say in swaying you toward him or not. That’s incredibly powerful, do not you think? 90004 90015 Signal 19 — There’s no question he’s listening to our every word 90016 90002 If a man sets his phone down for two seconds in our wild and whacky technology driven world today, then you sure as heck better take him seriously. 90004 90002 A shy guy that’s really interested in getting to know you better, is going to set all of his electronic devices to the side when you are in his presence.90004 90002 What does this mean? 90004 90002 That he’s head over heels for you. 90004 90002 What you do with this is of course up to you. 90004 90015 Signal 20 — He’s all ears ahead 90016 90002 When a guy actually listens to what you have to say, that truly is golden. Sure, he might be addicted to his phone and computer, but if he turns them off to actually listen to what you have to say, that’s just magical. 90004 90002 Make sure you do not let the simple but effective signal pass you by or you just might lose big time.90004 90015 Signal 21 — This man is always willing to help you no matter what 90016 90002 This does not just mean he’s going to help you when he feels the need. It also means he’s going to reach out to you when bad things hit the fan and you really need him. 90004 90002 Maybe your computer has crashed or you need help with a test coming up. It really does not matter, because a shy guy that likes you is going to step up to the plate and help you. He’s not going to question or judge you, he’ll just extend his hand to help make it better with your direction.90004 90002 I’m telling you right now, if you have a man like that in your corner and you want to pass him off, pretty please send him my way! 90004 90015 Signal 22- This guy is always smiling ear to ear 90016 90002 Shy guys often have trouble smiling and that’s often just because they are so nervous. But if a man is smiling around you whenever he gets the chance, that means a lot. 90004 90002 Shy guys are often too afraid to smile so please be aware of this. 90004 90002 However, if you catch him out of the corner of your eye smiling at you, then you seriously are in the best of positions.This guy likes you and just might not know how to show you yet. 90004 90002 Encourage him, stay open, inviting and positive and he’ll find the guts to ask you out and more. 90004 90002 When a man is smiling at you, that’s just all good, do not forget please. 90004 90013 Here are a few telltale signals the shy guy you have your eyes on, really is not into you 90014 90002 Better sooner than later right? 90004 90002 Here are 9 straight in your face signals a guy just is not into you and you need to move on, according to relationship experts at The Talko! 90004 90002 No doubt, the big bad world we live in contains a whole whack of confident gals that, for whatever reason, realize they are losing all common sense when it comes to guys.90004 90002 Love truly is blind. 90004 90002 When it comes to figuring out the shy guy just is not interested, here are a few straight up signals that you better pay attention to. 90004 90015 Signal One — He’s only ringing you at night 90016 90002 When a man is only calling you at night, it’s got to be for one thing right? 90004 90002 He’s lonely and wants to talk or he’s a horny bugger. 90004 90002 Either way, you need to take off your «love blinders» and pay attention to this one please.90004 90015 Signal Two — The drunk calling move 90016 90002 If a man only calls you after he’s wearing his beer goggles, this is a clear sign he just does not like you, at least for the right reasons. 90004 90002 When a guy is slobbering drunk, he’s anything but attractive and totally incapable of making a logical decision. 90004 90002 Need I say more? 90004 90015 Signal Three — Boyfriend duty is not on the agenda 90016 90002 A man that wants to be with you, should jump for joy at the opportunity to actually be your boyfriend, do not you think? 90004 90002 Selfish men are all about themselves and if their agenda does not put you priority one, you need to simply kick his butt to the curb and move on with a smile.That’s an order with a smile. 90004 90015 Signal Four — Still, he’s expecting you to be there for him 90016 90002 If you’ve agreed to a «no-strings-attached» relationship, that’s one thing. But if you are trying to get to know this man and he thinks he can stray around while you stick to him like glue, you sure as hell better tell him he’s got another thing coming. 90004 90002 When a man is happy to see others girls but expects you to remain loyal, he just does not care about you to the level you deserve.Sorry but it’s true. 90004 90002 Move on please if this is your circumstance. 90004 90015 Signal Five — It’s just you that’s always making the plans 90016 90002 This one is a little tougher to figure out because sometimes the man just does not know how to make plans for the both of you. 90004 90002 FACT — More often than not though, if a man is not right on the ball with making plans for the both of you, just because he wants to see you smile, he’s just not the guy you want or need in your life — Period.90004 90015 Signal Six — You do not get any special privileges, then your man just is not into you like you deserve 90016 90002 If a guy is not treating you special compared to his friends and family, if he is not obviously trying to impress you beyond the shadow of a doubt, then his is not the man for you. 90004 90002 You deserve to be the one he gets nervous around or at least gets a little bit of special treatment outside of the things he might do for his friends. 90004 90002 Keep your eyes and ears open on this one please.90004 90015 Signal Seven — This guy never wants to jump into your bed 90016 90002 If you love and care about someone of course you’re going to want to be with them and if you are not willing to sleep in their bed, well, you’ve got an issue. 90004 90002 It’s always going to be give and take and if the guy you think you like is not interested in sleeping in YOUR bed ever, then you better question his motives. 90004 90015 Signal Eight — Can not get his phone off his ear 90016 90002 If a man is not willing to put his phone down and give you his undivided attention, then he does not deserve you and he’s just not into you.90004 90002 When a guy likes a girl, shy or not, he’s going to want his total focus to be on you and nothing else, simply because he’s trying to impress you and show he’s interested. 90004 90002 There’s not much more to say on that one. 90004 90015 Signal Nine — His friends really do not want to engage with you whatsoever 90016 90002 If you are interested in a man who’s friends will not give you the time of day, you need to question seriously whether or not he really doles like you. 90004 90002 If a man likes a girl, usually his friends are the first to know about it so they can help him land you.So if they are ignoring you it’s important you see that as a signal he just does not like you and it’s time to move on with a smile. 90004 90015 Final Words 90016 90002 It really is tough sometimes to figure out whether the shy guy really likes your or if he’s just looking to pass the time. 90004 90002 Pay attention to the expert signals telling you he likes you and the ones that do not, and you’re on track to getting the shy guy of your dreams. 90004 .